What Triggers Eating Disorders?

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Today, on a cold snowy day, when all my son’s friends were gathering to go for a walk to be in the snow, I was startled by a situation that brought me back to a similar situation that I had had and I felt strongly compelled to warn one of the kids about.

My radar had been triggered and my intuition would not be quiet until I shared my insights, my story with this young lad.

A friend of my son is in a new relationship with a girl his age and they are inseparable which sounds sweet, until I found out that she is so jealous of his friends and especially other girls that she does not allow him out of her sight. She insists on joining in even when she does not like that activity or just stops this young boy from joining in with his friends alone.

Her possessiveness was causing problems with his friends and eventually I knew he would be shut off from all other social events if this continued.

You see I had some experience of this. A first when I met this young man, when I was 19, I was impressed and felt special and I have never experienced this kind of attention and so naturally I took it to mean love. That someone loved and cared for me so much and wanted to be around me all the time and keep me to himself.

However, Early on he found out I wrote to a boy in Munich, Germany that I had met through my family when a group of young Bavarians came to visit us and stay, and we had remained in communication. That had to now stop and I was threatened that if it did not we would end.

It seemed reasonable to me at first as we were going steady and well he liked me to be all his, so naturally I was flattered to have so much attention.

He asked me to stop wearing anything pink or any make up as he preferred me natural, so I did, feeling that I liked to please him.

However being me, because I liked make up I just put make up on when I as not with him or at work. If he checked up on me at work I took the make up off. This should have been a warning sign, but I was young so what ever; It seemed normal to me as I had little experience with Boys and not a great relationship with my Mum which he also increased the wedge between us further.

I wanted to move and buy and new house that was being built near by, and by this time my parents were separated and I was indeed alone with him and I did not believe I could afford to do it alone. I asked if he would live there too and he said only of we are married; So then we go married. I knew it was wrong but I was trapped and too far down the road to stop it all.

Once we were married his behaviour became worse, I had so many rules to follow and even down to what I could eat. He wanted me to look like his EX girlfriend who he raved about all the time. So he wanted me to be a lot slimmer, longer hair and blonde, tiny arms and legs and waist like Kyle Monogue. He called me names and made me feel small and useless.

We would go to parties at friends houses and he would tell me terrible stuff before we went in so I felt embarrassed and he threatened me if my behaviour was too flirty he would smash the guy and me later. He threatened me with concrete wellington boots at the bottom of the canal and as I ad no friends or family who would know or care. He has systematically shut off all routes to safety.

He asked about work and was always so suspicious if I mentioned any one of my male colleges, so I just stopped mentioning names. But there was a work Christmas party coming up and I wanted to go, I loved to dance and get dressed up.

I managed to present the Christmas event in such as way that I could go but I felt nervous all night. I felt watched and in fear of having a good time I refused to dance I would not put it past him to spy on me just to cause an argument and help his plan to make me feel smaller and more useless.

I started to notice that he talked a good talk about work and how tough he was and how he threaten certain people. He worked as a landscape gardener and once had to go to one of the houses to collect something and I was in the car outside but I could hear him talking. Before he went in he said I’m going to tell him what for and that he is a cheater and a liar and get the money he owes us.

I listened to their conversation and it seemed normal no high or loud voices; When he came back to the car he said what he had done and how he had shouted and threatened him. Weird I thought but said nothing. I started noticing that he was the crazy insecure one and that by making me feel small and get me to do things or be a certain way it made him feel manly and like a tough man.

I did not say anything as he had a temper and had been very, very unreasonable and hit me several times but the verbal abuse was just as bad. He pushed me down stairs and took things away from me.

If I ever smiled at someone or was friendly with a neighbour I was threatened, as I was apparently having an affair. His fear and actions were crazy. I told very few people about my home life and I had no contact with my family so I was alone; The friends who knew some of the situations were staying away a long way away from me and any trouble as they did not want to get caught up in any of this although he was charming to some he was vile to others.

I had to get out of this mess I had created for myself and as my Mum liked to say often when I was growing up, you made your bed now lye in it.

I made a decision, I would leave him. The time had to be right. I had to build a safe exit route, I had to get away without any further repercussions. I waited for an argument but it never seemed big or bad enough to use as an exit route. I waited for him to threaten or hit me but when he did it seemed not significant enough to leave for.

There was another Christmas party on the horizon and a friend of mine would come and collect me and we would go together.

Her Dad actually a client of mine in the business I was then in, came to collect me and drove us to the Complete Angler Hotel In Marlow, such a beautiful hotel.

I promised myself I would eng-$joy myself no matter what, laugh Dance and to shell with the consequences

I had such a  lovely evening. My friends Dad dropped me off in the wee small hours and guess who was up? Questioning, playing the victim and accusing me of getting up to mischief. I wound myself up to a crescendo and exploded. I used that as the final straw.

I slept in the spare room and although I don’t think I did sleep much, I had made a stand. That was it no way back. He was always remorseful of his accusations and behaviour the next day so when he tried to make up I said it’s gone too far.

He cried and cried. But I was resolute. That week I found a flat and moved out and as It was Christmas planned a visit to my Mums to get away. I was skin and bone but so happy.

When I came back after Christmas I move into my new flat and the girl who had promised to help me was no where to be found, I as alone 15 car trips later I had moved out and although I had to leave my chocolate Labrador behind I was FREE.

The thing is as I write this today 30 + years on, I know that I still have dreams about being trapped with him. I dream I’ve gone back or still in that relationship and I am looking to escape.

It has had long lasting effects and even in ways you don’t imagine like my eating obsessions and desire to be thin, Self hate, poor self image, cruel self judgement, feeling all alone, not asking for help, waiting to be told off or punished for something that’s considered normal, like a fun conversation with someone. I know a lot of my eating disorder and desire to starve myself came from these days and as I face another trigger I am kinder and more gentle with myself and see the lesson and the huge gift from this personal but sad experience.

I am extremely sensitive to people and situations that feel off, and can detect a victim from a mile away. That vibration and self pity that leads to the bully tactics is so loud that I know I have a choice, to stay or go, and deal with it differently and hopefully head on.

I hope that for everyone in a relationship who finds themselves caught ‘between the devil and the deep blue sea’ you know that you get to chose, Maybe you have to be careful how you exit this relationship but you can do it. If I did so can you.

So much Love.

STOP STARTING ANOTHER NEW DIET

If you’re about to start another new diet STOP!

Please!

Diets are not the answer and they have most likely ruined your metabolism and your bodies natural ability to lose weight, even the smallest amount without feeling like you are having to stave yourself to death and all the food you like seeming like it is a sin.

Diets have for sure wrecked your ability to easily lose weight and crushed you belief its in any way possible, and further more caused havoc in your mind about what right to get back in control of your body. So much false information has been fed to women about how to lose weight.

If you like me have been on every diet available and looked for the answer to what is happening to your body, like me you have become stuck in a cycle of losing the same amount time and time again and now wondering why you are unable to get the same results that you had the first time around.

There is a reason for that.

It’s called hormones and it’s time to set you free and have food, diets, and your body issues as a NON ISSUE from now on. Yeah hear you cry!

I’ve had sittings with 100’s of women on ‘Body Code Breakthrough’ calls, looking for solutions to weight and who have all stared with food and restricting food, over exercising and getting nowhere fast, then they get to that defining moment….. when they are ready to do anything to have the result they want, just as I was.

You want things FIXED and NOW!

You’ve gone past that stage when nothing changes and you are ready to chuck it all in and give up and be resolved to the fact that this is your lot or do something you’ve NEVER done before ask for professional help.

Take a deep breath. It is possible. It is not going to take ages or even be that hard, I assure you. You are not alone. You are a super powerful smart and sassy woman and you can turn this around just as 100’s of women have done so far and faster than you imagined. You too get to drop 2 to 10 dress sizes and never have to exercise hard or starve yourself.

I understand what is happening to you, the mental, emotional and physical struggles, the indignity of it all and the ensuing metabolic block.

I’ve got you. I see the weight gain, and loss of the waistline, the exhaustion, lack of interest in sex, low libido, big bloated belly, digestion issues, insomnia, memory loss, brain fog, irritation, feeling you have mild or occasional depression and feel you are being uncontrollably emotional, your body is winding down from its reproductive phase into the next phase of womanhood, and you feel like you are losing control, falling apart at the seams as some of my clients call it, it feels like your body is misbehaving and you are literally losing your mind.

I am not here to watch you muddle through, or become resigned to these changes, or live a mediocre life – Oh PLEASE NO. I know what it feels like because I’ve been there. It’s rotten I know.

If you haven’t completely given up hope of feeling that energy flood your body and the joy of living, feeling like a woman in her prime…. then read on.

When I fell into this phase of womanhood feeling like I failed at everything I tried, I went looking for information and listened to my body and the symptoms I had. I promised myself I would resolve this. I had seen my mother and far too many of her friends struggle with terrible medication side effects and hormone pills and treatments that the doctors got to dish out from horse urine, Prozac to advise like ‘there is nothing I can do’ and they still aged rapidly and I saw the life drain out of them and their weight increase.

Not for me I decided. I knew what I had done to alter my hormones before in another phase of womanhood when hormones were causing no end of problems. So, I began to experiment with nutrition, It took me a lot of trail and error to adapt my intake to get the results I wished for. I was not a 30 something anymore but a 50 something and that was the difference.

Then I also looked and researched into what I was putting in as far as my mindset was concerned, and saw how the constant thoughts that I churned around in my head were equally as important as the cleaner nutrition I chose, as they caused certain hormones I did not want to race about my body to be released too. These chemical culprits from worry, stress and over work were adding to the adrenalin, Cortisol and Insulin in my blood stream that contributed greatly to the weight, the feelings of depression as well as the exhaustion. It took a while to get a new perception and have that working out for me and to change how I saw things, this alone impacted and altered these chemicals and hormones just by what I was concentrating on and I saw how I had un knowingly become addicted to the negative chemicals. I was used to being my normal every day mediocre struggle experience I had not seen the place I was in. Quite quickly things turned around 180°.

Change was happening and so easily now that I saw the benefits every day.

I figured out the best way to reclaim my body, my mind and soul and what I fed myself in terms of all three, the best nutrition, the best thoughts and I became more connected and tapped into myself as a happy soul. And each one has become equally as important as the other.

Ultimately I got myself back in tune and in a great place, I stopped the weight creeping back on, I felt like a younger more energized and happier version of myself. All because the lady loves her hormones…

And that happy experience has driven me to assist women from all over the globe to get back what they thought they had lost forever, lost in the fight with invisible hormones and attitudes that kill the light and turn it off in every woman struggling with her body because of hormones.

I did not create the programs I run over night, they have taken experimentation and guts to evolve into what they are today. Successfully seeing 100’s of happy women drop 2 to 10 dress sizes and regain their health and vitality, feel safe in their ability to play all out at life all go hand in hand with upgrading nutrition, mindset and re connecting with yourself as you came here to be, as a woman becoming her best self, living free and transforming your life in ways you cannot even imagine just yet.

It is the HOPE you have been looking for and I am blessed to be able to bring this to you, because you deserve to feel your best and look amazing.

1. Dive into a Body Code Breakthrough call and discover what is the NO 1 hormone block that has halted your ability to lose weight and discover your Body Code in the process

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2. Jump on board the “2.2.2 – 2 dress sizes in 2 months” program starting in February 2021 and work to reset and re calibrate your hormones so that you can fit into your favorite dress for the summer.

Your ability to access your fat cells and re charge your hormones positively will astound you.

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3. Make a new betrothal to yourself and start a new relationship with yourself and your body, mind and soul. Peace with Food  feeds your soul, your mind and soul so that you are phenomenally strong and nobody’s opinion or rejection of you ever rocks you again. Take 6 months to develop a deeper knowing of yourself, create strong boundaries, express yourself and never look back. Ditch the Diet & Exercise Trap.

The new upgraded version of you is about to breakthrough.

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Body as your ‘Body Guard’

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Your Body as your Body Guard

As soon as you wake up your brain looks around and becomes vigilant and has you in high alert. There is a part of the brain that looks for clues and dangers and how to navigate through your day. Your reptile brain looks in every corner to see what is a-safe and what is not and tells you.

You’re not even aware of this because its on automatic and you have always done it.

Your body constantly collects and pick up data all day long, and at night too for that matter.

Your body takes readings and even acts on the emotional state of others around you too, not just your own environment, thoughts and concerns.

All of this means that you are feeling al day long, although subconsciously your environment is alive with vibrations you receive and you will always have a chemical reaction to this level of High Alert and vigilant feeling, that goes onto further affect your internal organs, bacteria, cells and energy levels.

Your body is trying to get your attention with all this data. Can you feel the tension build in your stomach, in your neck and shoulders as the day wears on. The data keeps on coming in, it is relentless, all filtered via your marvelous reptile brain warning you of a potential plot against you, maybe something to mistrust or fear, your brain is there only to warn of danger and it is for you to make a conscious decision if it is worth acting upon. That’s it. Yet we don’t take the time.

Ignore these first signals and be sure that your mind will pick up the pace until it is influencing your body with signals of worry, until you really have to take notice of what these sign are telling you as you will have accidents, health issues become overwhelmed and eventually ask yourself what on earth is going on here?.

Here is the link to the accompanying video. https://youtu.be/1epzJANW9sc

 

The BAD thing about the brain and body being your body guard

  1. She is always on duty as your body guard, giving you data to analyze and trying the best ways she can to get your undivided attention.
  2. You over think situations, analyze endlessly the hell out of them, not knowing why you feel so overwhelmed, with so many decisions to make and what’s right.
  3. You are becoming exhausted being ‘ON’ all the time and have no idea how to switch OFF this High Alert status. Too many ideas, plans, deadline, people to please, friend or foe, good or bad. When will it all end?

The GOOD thing about the brain and body being your body guard

  1. You get to choose what to be vigilant about and when you can chill out and turn it OFF
  2. You can relax knowing you have the best support at hand and on your side, just learn how to ask the right and best questions to your high alert self and when you can literally turn off.
  3. You can turn OFF the constant High Alert and the flight and flight mode and use that leakage of energy else where, leaving you much more awake, vital and ready to have fun. You can see clearly when it’s not yours to worry about and then – no ones opinion, judgments, bad behavior affect you or has your body on GUARD any more.

You become gently strong and so resilient and ask the right question to your own personal ‘body guard’

So many ladies have the misconception that to be in control is to be super busy and in control of everything, juggling work, home, family members, food, chores etc.

When I see the control that is needed towards food for someone, I know exactly where the issue lies in their battle for the control over their life too.

 

The very efficient vigilant Reptile part of the brain is on High Alert and if so, she needs a whole LOT of constant ENERGY to fuel all that pressure, those amount of thoughts and the need to fire fight situations, and so the body has to crave more and more fuel to restore the energy and the fuel lost in the days emergencies, and also creates a need to store extra energy as fuel on the body, something like a reserve tank to use should the re be a big emergency.

Because lets face it Every Day you wake up and it all starts over again, the status of High Alert and being ON Duty 24/7 hours of the day.

Until I discovered how to turn off my Reptile brain and get in control of the situations at hand I was exhausted and regularly craved certain foods to fuel me. I gained weight and had health issues of many sorts to resolve. My Body Guard saw to it that I held a store for that just in case event

Now thankfully I am economic with my energy use and only fight the fires that need my full attention and not everyone else’s as well… now that I feel is far more efficient.

If you want to be and look like you have it all under control and not store energy for another day’s emergencies and you’d like to be seen as a switched on woman who is well in charge of her work, her life and her body now reflects that, then to be on top of your game you need to know and do 3 NEW things

  1. You need to be able to feel SAFE
  2. You need to be running on a fuel that lasts a very long time and gives you lots of energy
  3. You need to know how to turn OFF the high alert and vigilance state in an instant.

This will turn your body around 180°

Take the quiz called ‘Drop a Dress Size’ and see where your reptile brain and her level of High Alert are at by taking this quiz we can see together what strange things and responses she has going on, making it easy to identify and resolve the main culprits.

I hope this has been helpful. I will see you on the other side.

Here is the quiz called Drop A Dress Size.

It has been my pleasure to share this leading edge information of how the body really works.

 

If you have questions or a concern please do not hesitate to ask me.

Fiona Robertson

Body Whisperer

Be at Peace with Food, Your Body, and Eating

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What’s Next?

Are you Struggling? Looking for help, but feeling alone in your battles and are there scary parts you just don’t want to look at or face without a true friend around?

It’ so much easier to face your demons when you see them whilst you are holding the hand of your best friend. Don’t you agree?

You feel SAFER to look and SAFER to challenge your own perceptions.

Elianne told me “ I’m broken, I can’t hold myself together I feel out of control”

That was 1 month ago and when I brought her here for a deep dive retreat in SW France, I had to point out that she was far from broken in my eyes.

So what happened?

She replied, “Well I was broken, but then I started to listen to you and followed your advise and took care of myself in the very different ways, like you suggested and I climbed out of my hole.”

During her stay with me we went on a deep dive journey and in which she met her best friend – her soul-self, and she embarrassed her fully and after a day on a walk in the mountains she was told what she could call her new friend, she had found the name of her new best friend. Who has always been there for her and will have her back and hold her hand through thick and thin but now she can hear and see her.

This is such a wonderful experience to witness, I saw her face soften and look 10 years younger, far less contorted and obviously struggling with life, situations and her perceptions.  She sees the reasons things happen and let go of the need to control everything.

The good thing about meeting and getting to know your inner self – soul – best friend is that you have someone who had your back no latter what she is and will always be there for you. You are SAFE to let go and hand it over.

The bad thing about not meeting or knowing your soul is that you feel so alone struggling with everything, feeling fearful, doubt and cant see straight.

Not a great place to be which takes its toll on the physical body,

We all need a true and trusted loyal friend.

When you are ready to meet up with your SOUL and best friend start now by noticing what she is showing you , this will come out and be in your desires, dreams, what people have you met and liked or disliked, what situations are taking up all of your thoughts and attention right now?

Become aware of everything that happens as it has a reason. What is she (your soal and best friend ) showing you?

When are you craving foods and when do starve yourself and you reject all food and nourishment and try to ignore the painful situations and battles you are currently involved in?

Your soul talks to you via your feelings and experiences, deep desires.

Are you ready to play? With your soul and make life easier and more fun with her gently by your side?

I hope this has been helpful to know that you have your best friend at hand and available to guide you. It is my job to help you to see your soul is calling you through the weight problems, and physical symptoms and get you to listen to her calling, her voice and invite her in.

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2 secrets that guarantee your WILLPOWER will work this time

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2 Secrets to guarantee your WILLPOWER will work this time

We’ve all done it…

“OK, today I promise myself that I’ll eat well, follow my diet – because that date is getting closer and closer I want to, have to lose some weight”.

You skip breakfast and by lunch, you’re not only hungry but your concentration has drifted and you have had such a weird morning. And if only that person (mention no names ) had not done that it would have been all OK. I would have lasted. But now I really deserve a reward for getting through all of that.

I’d be OK really and managed my low cal diet. It’s all their fault…The next day comes and repeats the day before. It is like groundhog day and each day after too, and your promise to yourself and the outfit you wanted to slip into, are getting farther and farther away from you.

It’s time for you to break that cycle of self destruct. But Willpower and you don’t get along.

Having Willpower like a rod of iron is only any good and work if you take on some of the steps I’ve identified here that make it work.

Here are 3 ways out of 12 that I’ve identified to get rock solid Willpower.

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1. First You have to know what you want and by when. For a special EVENT maybe. Aim for a date and know by how much you want to lose. And find a way to be held accountable in a way that works for you. Map it all out.

2. You will need a firm idea of who you want to become in the next phase of your life when you have lost the desired amount and living in the body you are going after. How you will walk and talk, How will you walk that room at that function. Who are you in this new body?

3. The third factor is you need to know your BIG WHY. You really want to lose that weight and get into the body of your dreams.  So why is that important for you?

Willpower is that invisible superpower that keeps us going towards our promise to ourselves and committed to ourselves, our new selves no matter what.

It has that magic ability to get you all the way there. You’ve seen others manage and maybe you believe you can’t do it, because you have never got to know your willpower and how she works really well for you and how to put that secret weapon into action.

Last week a lovely clients told me after working with me for 4 weeks:-

“I’ve never got this far before? I believe in ME now. I want this more than anything else. I’m not frightened and I’ve been to doctors, nutritionalists, healers and none of them could make me feel about myself the way you have. I get it. I like myself, I want to feel ALIVE in my body and I like myself enough now to do the best for myself. That’s huge. Thank you” Elaine.

The good part about WILLPOWER is it makes it all look like a miracle just happened when all the time it was always you who decided and committed to you and not falling for that temporary craving.

The BAD thing about WILLPOWER it can feel like effort and force and that NEVER EVER works especially for us ladies. Our soul who is the one who manages to keep up committed to our dreams does not respond to FORCE and will actually fight against it. A woman can better resist her craving when she is clear and understands what it is there for. So let’s start to get to know what that craving is telling us.

2 secrets to guarantee your WILLPOWER will work are:

  1. Get a very precise image of who you want to be in the next phase of your life.
  2. Get a precise picture of why you want this. Go beyond the mind i.e. I want to look good, and really dive into what drives you.

One client I had for 10 months wanted to lose 2 stone and ended up losing 5 stone in those 10 months. Because she knew what she wanted and that was her willpower shining through like a soul beacon. Her inspiration and clear image of herself became her drive. To stand on stage and not hide an inch and be a brilliant leader, an authentic trainer, and inspiration to others. And NOT someone who looks like she has NOT got her shit together and is struggling with overeating.

This lady can never go back and give in to her cravings as she knows and has become so aware when she is triggered to overeat, and by who and by what and how exactly to stop her craving.

Make it EASY on yourself to have a new relationship with food and your body and follow the 7 STEPS to STOP CRAVINGS. It’s a FREE download and lets you discover your key reason for overeating and giving up on yourself. And let’s neutralize that so that you can walk the room in whatever outfit you want.

There are 3 ways of currently studying and working with me:

  1. “Feeling Priceless” 12 months. 24 weekly and 6 monthy, 1 to 1 calls (30 in all). Covering everything deep dive into the bigger trapped emotions for release, perceptions renewed and Mindset reset. The spirit is 100{6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} involved this is £888 per month. Or £8,888.00 paid in 1 go. Includes a 6 Day Deep Dive Retreat.- IN SW FRANCE
  • This is the “222 – 2 stone in 2 months” 4 month 16 1 to 1 Calls, Uncovering mostly mental and emotional blocks and stops, and an introduction to working with spirit, 888X 4 = £3,552 or £2,222.00 paid in 1 time http://fionarobertson.co/222-total-body-reset/
  • The Personal Introduction to Your Soul and prepare for Spirit Assistance. 5 months GROUP. 20 Group calls 1 x 1to1 call to deep dive journey and get your very Personal Introduction with your Soul. And get to hear her messages to you, reconnection practices. Learn to Love you again. So that you are so sure of who you are that no rejection, bad behavior will ROCK YOU. 200 x 5 or £555. In 1 go.
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5 simple mistakes women make when trying to lose weight – Mother- Daughter contract

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5 simple mistakes women make when trying to lose weight – Mother Daughter Contract

“How can you call yourself a Weight Loss coach?”

“I did not lose any weight on your retreat or whilst following your program”. Whilst I saw others lose 5 or 10kg. Me, I stayed the exact same. I am very, very frustrated”.

There are 5 simple mistakes that women don’t understand when they trying to lose weight

I will go into these in depth over the coming weeks and explain why it is that women still believe what they are doing will influence their weight positively – BUT 99% of the time it is very often the reverse.

Most women think they know what to do when it comes to their bodies but get lost in adapting their food, eating less and less and trying to move more and more.

There are 5 simple elements I that I have discovered that play a fundamental role in your body reshaping itself.

  1. Stress
  2. Sleep
  3. Hormones
  4. Exercise
  5. Missing Nutrients

+ Secret Influencer ( every woman story is different but has a similar theme with her particular Mother-Daughter Contract)

For further insights into how these 5 simple elements play out with us physically follow the link.

On this call with a very pissed off woman complaining that she had not lost weight, and had since gained extra weight since she stopped the program.

I listened to her, curious if she would see or take in any of the links we had discussed in our time together, and see that the specific tasks that were assigned to her were there to highlight what was specifically happening here. But alas she was too happy blaming someone else. Often her mother and then her Ex, her previous boss and now me.

This was an old pattern and the anger she held for her relationship with her mother, even at 55years old she was still ruining all her chances of building strong relationships with others and with herself.

The mother-daughter contract & relationship is a very powerful one. It represents our first love and first disappointment, that clearly can last decades. Even being handed down through the generations each mother to daughter until it lands on you, and ruins your relationships and body.

It’s our task to break that contract once and for all. I myself know this only too well and found myself wanting to live as far away as possible from my mother. Australia would have been too close, but I could not get into that beautiful country. So S.W. France was where I landed. Even hundreds of miles away from the ties to the apron strings and need to be appreciated, loved, it still dragged me down until I did some much-needed breakthrough work specifically on that. So that now I am not affected and am happily impervious to her bad behavior, criticisms, and judgments of me.

The victim and blame stories I heard from my client and frequently hear from ladies are all very similar to the wounded little girl inside. She is crying out to be heard and loved.

These feelings and needs are enough for the body to carry a layer or even several layers of protection around our middle, and with some women covering the whole body.

But, I hear you ask, what has that got to do with her ability to lose weight and STOP her overeating? Won’t that go eventually with diets or detoxes?

You cannot diet away the emotional drama, trauma, disappointment, hurt, loss and all of that and more in the cells.

It’s not your fault. There is No One who telling this side of the weight story but me.

You weren’t to know, but you know now and it’s easy as pie to rectify.

I have seen it in dozens upon dozens of women, myself included, lose 6lbs in just a few days ( PLUS other major physical symptoms ) when they release the need to tell that same sort of maddening stories they have told over and over again. When you release the need to hold onto that hurt and you will see that weight goes along with it. It all goes down the toilet literally.

So no matter what diet you are on, the weight can’t go – as its held in place by you and your need to hang onto that hurt.

This lady had been given all the tools, all the practices been shown several times how to take the time to make the space for herself that will see any woman turn around here complaints 180°.

BUT instead of doing any of that, she preferred to distract herself with other stuff rather than what her body wanted her to pay attention to, so she could feel vibrant again.

I understand I really do, the fear of setting yourself free, from the identity of the wounded child, which means you have to grow up. And many, many of us don’t know how to grow up when we have been raised by a child like mother. A grown women in her years yet still acting out like a child.

Here is what you can do if this sounds familiar.

If you want to overcome the body holding onto the weight that can easily be released –

1.First grab a copy of the Body Code 5 Essential Elements that are keeping your body stuck.

  1. Second contact me by replying to this E mail with Mother Daughter Contract and ask for a free consultation to see the 3 immediate steps you can take today to release the mother energy and the contract you are tied into. Reply with Mother Daughter Contract and I will make specific time for you and prioritize you to take you on a huge step in the right direction, so you can start to release the weight of being in that energy.

When you are ready to set yourself free and grow in a wiser woman in the next phase of your life I will celebrate and support you and be your biggest cheer leader.

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What’s Next – The right place to discover that your body is not fixed, final or punishing you.

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What’s Next?

Hello and welcome I am thrilled you are tuning in.

This is the right place to be to discover that your body is not fixed, final or punishing you.

 

Let’s’ get you settled and feeling first of all SAFE in your body so that you trust her and she trusts you – then get you to have the greatest experience you can imagine physically that you have craved for decades.

So What’s Next? I received a call recently and the woman Melanie, said to me –

“Fiona I can’t do this it is too hard!

What if I change so much and I lose all those around me the people I love.

What if I became that girl in the RED SHOES and I go wild, thoroughly enjoying life and all she offers… I know I have that in me and I’ll wreck everything that I’ve worked so hard for.”

 

“After our Call” – she continued – “I see it all… wanting to lose weight is showing me – OMG how can I say this and not seem bad – how bored I am. I am frustrated. I really do want more……”

Why do so many women settle for less than they deserve ? – when the door opens and they see and feel what’s possible next – then they promptly shut it again.

You heart and soul are so bored, neglected and crave all the juice of life to fill you up on every level. You see the reasons you overeat and use shopping or work or sport to fill you up and ignore your spirited self calling you.

Yet the longer you ignore the real craving for all that juicy life the longer you will fill in that empty gap with what ever you fill it in with. Here we talk about food. But there are other gap fillers like shopping, over working, over sport.

As soon as you start to admit you would love to have some fun, be more frivolous, be feisty and be fired up in your life then sooner you will feel fulfilled – and the cravings will neutralize themselves, the endless spending and food binges will stop and these cravings will have shown themselves for what they truly are calling you for and towards.

This lady started a fresh and committed to herself by breaking through her blocks and stops, she dropped 2 stone that’s 3 dress sizes and is now having a very juicy life.

If your willpower is weak, and your self-sabotage is stronger than ever, you will no doubt be asking yourself what is going wrong?

If you have found that you have broken every promise you made to yourself and can’t keep on track then be sure that You are being triggered.

Find your trigger and neutralize it?

Triggers come in all shapes and sizes. Its well worth neutralizing that trigger and moving on with your life.

When you are ready to experience what Melanie did – to lose the need to fill up on overeating, give into cravings and get back in control of you this one technique for 7 days, 7 Hours and start now with 7 minutes.

  1. Ask yourself if you are BORED like Melanie – frustrated – Angry – sad, hurt – resentful – lonely?
  2. Feel how boredom feels in your body Don’t push it away; Invite it in fully. Pay attention to it fully – why is it there what does it make you feel.
  3. What do you want instead? Dedicate 7 minutes to be honest about what you want.

For example do you want Fun, Excitement, adventure, be spontaneous romance, have really great love and sex and not hold back or is it all so much to ask for?

Do you resist it and stay bored for the next 20 – 30 years – and all that that means – or do you take steps to amend and become who you most wanted to be in this lifetime.

When you are ready reply with ‘Start a Fresh’ and Ill see to it that we give you an experience of what is possible for you next.

I’ll give you preferential treatment to go to the top of my list and break free of what’s creating you on that energetic level.

It is my souls purpose to break free women from their self limiting beliefs and the physical consequences of these.

See you on the other side ladies;

Fiona Robertson

Body Whisperer

Creating women consciously and on purpose one step at a time.

P.S When you’re ready there are 4 ways I can help you with the very next step to becoming the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life.

  1. Help yourself to a copy of my FREE Create yourself on purpose E book

“The Ultimate Body Connection” and see how to create yourself on purpose using the steps and techniques that feel amazing that I have laid out in this E-book. Click here http://fionarobertson.co/product/ultimate-body-connection-e-book/

  1. Join the Women Winning the World, with Weight, Wealth and Wonder community and connect with women who are creating them selves on purpose and be one of the smart women who get more tips and techniques and have already started to make a real impact on who they want to reinvent themselves as in the next phase of their lives. Click here https://www.facebook.com/groups/FionaRobertson/

3. Grab a FREE 45 min consultation and breakthrough Body Scan call with me and discover your current

  1. a) blocks and stops that are in place,
  2. b) what your body is doing, and
  3. c) the very next step you can take to feel confident, excited and believe you can create your own physical body as you want her to be.

Just reply to this message and say ‘Body Scan’ and I will send you details how we can connect.

4. Work with me. If you are wanting to create yourself into the woman you most want to be in the next phase of your life physically, mentally and in high spirits, just reply to this message with PRIVATE in the subject line and tell me a little about your story and your physical experience, and I will get you all the details you need to make that process happen to see you become the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life in just a few months.

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Exactly what Mindset I used to Lose 2 stone (28lbs), 2 dress sizes all in 2 months

Exactly what mindset I used to Lose 2 stone (28lbs), 2 dress sizes all in 2 months

 

Women over 40 take note, as this is when the metabolism can slow down and when what you have done before no longer works anymore, Here is what I did and why what you did not longer works as it did.

 

Today I am going to be getting very clear on the steps I took and the dozens of women over 40 are taking and getting to win with weight and got them to drop those unwanted pounds in a very short space of time.

 

Works if you’re a vegan, vegetarian, raw plant based foodie, or a meat or a serious carb lover, what ever floats your boat food wise.

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We are going to focus on and RELEASE the specific subconscious mental blocks and mindsets that are causing your body to want to keep the weight on.

Get ready to throw out weight loss books, calorie counting apps, and scales… because you won’t need them ever again! You’re about to discover the secrets to real and lasting weight loss, have peace with food, vibrant health, and TOTAL freedom in your body.

You don’t need me to tell you any more things about your food and nutrition – that is not how this works.

So this is *not* a diet or a meal plan. There will be NO RULES.

We’re going to focus on the real reason why you cannot stick to any diet and why weight does not go even when you have starved yourself.. And it’s because you have specific subconscious mental blocks that are causing your body to want to keep the weight on!

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I will go into today the action steps I took and how I did them, that meant I put in place the jigsaw pieces that I needed to finish the overall picture and get me to being a woman winning with weight forever.

I was a woman in her 40’s who could not understand what was happening to her body, I literally starved myself and still could not drop weight, I had cravings that I could not control especially at night time or just when I was alone in my car. I was unhappy with myself and my body and battling daily to lose weight and hated my reflection.

 

When I started to put in the missing pieces ( the pieces that 80{6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of women never get around to looking at) I had avoided looking- thinking I could just do it the way I always had, to eat less and try and move more, but exhausted as I was that was not an option to move more.

 

So I started to fill in the pieces that I will lay out for you today, and I not only dropped 2 dress sizes but I regained my confidence and I ate more and started to really enjoy food and life again. Big picture I got clear in my mind about who I was, what I wanted instead, what I would look and walk and talk like in the next phase of my life and as a result I lost the excess weight. As a result, I improved communication with my family and in every relationship, I attracted a wonderful man, My career improved to one I reveled in, and I began to love being alive again. So that why today I am sharing exactly what I did to lose 2 stone( 28lbs ) 2 dress sizes and all in 2 months

 

  1. Nutrition – I discovered that I had sadly been eating to little and eating 50{6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of the wrong foods to bring me energy and still see me lose weight. I was obsessive about healthy food but it was the wrong fuel for me. My fuel system was all wrong. I took some in depth tests reading my hormones and the chemical culprits and low and behold discovered that I would predominantly do far, far better with one thing I had avoided for the last 40 years. FAT was my predisposed long burning fuel; Now that was me and based on the symptoms I had;

Some women do really well on Carbs and that fast burning fuel suits them down to the ground, gives energy and they can burn and use efficiently with the enzymes they produce and the gut bacteria they have.

Other women do better on Fats ( I know right weird ) and no lean meat or grains. This had me with ample energy and gave access to my fat stores.

Then there are ladies who do far better on a wide range of {6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of food groups mixed; living off variety.

There is no ONE FITS ALL HERE.

Once I changed fuel I was off and running, eating more than I had in 30 years , thoroughly enjoying it all and still losing 2lbs a week.

I resisted eating fat as I was hearing all those diets rules in my head and did not believe it. I had to forget everything I had ever learnt about how I had been taught how the body worked and not just on nutrition.

 

  1. I cleaned up my act with a 7 day detox and digestive cleanse so that the enzymes and gut bacteria were ready to adapt to a new fuel and
  2. I started eating the new fuel in stages to bread and develop the correct internal chemistry to use this fuel for my energy.
  3. I adapted my eating pattern from 3 meals to 2 meals and then 1 meal a day whilst I saw my weight dropping fast I was never hungry as I was running the most efficient fuel for my body.
  4. I then adapted the other equally important pieces of the jigsaw into place one by one……

I mean mindset and how the body communicates with us.

 

80{6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of women never get this far. Which is a pity because they will never reach the goal of having weight loss as a done deal and they will still go round in circles looking for which diet comes next. This is not a diet. Throw away your diet books and

 

The second step I became really aware of what was affecting my body, i.e. when I Hungry . when I ate the wrong foods for me I craved sugars, grains and carbs’ I felt empty really quickly, I had to eat regularly of I got these headaches, felt exhausted, got snappy, irritated moody and had a fuzzy head and could not concentrate

I became really aware also of when and where I felt stressed or uncomfortable. Knowing that these chemical culprits for laying down belly fat were racing around my body causing havoc, I alone had set off these hormones and I alone could stop them. I needed to be more in control of my mindset so that Cortisol, Insulin adrenalin could be turned OFF if I was ever to lose the weight caused by stress hormones. I also got very clever at turning ON the hormones that accessed and turned ON the fat burn, Leptin, Growth Hormone and a few others.

I felt when I was begining to get stressed and each time I began to know who and what was causing it. I got very well practiced at an advanced technique that takes just 5 minutes to and I could do anywhere to reduce my stress down to a zero. I was in control for the firts time ever.

90{6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of women never get this far or do what it takes to get in control of their own body. And how she reacts

 

I became aware that I had changed when I no longer craved the foods or snacks as I used to. 80 {6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of my cravings vanished in 4 weeks.

 

The next step that I took saw me getting familiar with what triggered my stress and began to name those uncomfortable feelings in my mind. I took some further education to learn about my feelings and emotions, having suppressed them for decades I was unfamiliar and did not have a wide range of emotions or know how to deal with a certain situation, let alone express myself in this language. I stifled my self not knowing what I felt.

*I learned a whole range of feelings and how they felt in the body, each feeling having a different vibration, resonance and place where that feeling sat in my body and creating different physical symptoms

*I learned what my anger, hurt, resentment, judged, criticized felt like along with others. Also when I was feeling them and who was bringing that up for me

*I took my time as I wanted to break through this and never have to revisit this again. It was not as painful as I had imagined it would be. I felt lighter and free to be me.

*Each emotion and feeling was released and I discovered there are the BIG 5 that have a massive effect on the ability to let go of the weight. Clearing situations back from before you were born or when you were little, as well as ancestral family patterns and stories and breaking that very chain. This is deep energy healing and so worthwhile. Yet women don’t know about it and never get this far.

*As I lost weight I found that I hit a plateau and could not understand, I understood that I had resistance to actually losing the weight I wanted to lose. I needed help to be coached through this and out the other side; How could I resist what I wanted most of all? BUT I DID

*I had to adopt a completely different mindset one that supported me and let go of the fear of what would happen to me when I lost the weight, This is the biggest block I found in myself and with over 50 {6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} of the women I coach.

*I had the fear that I did not want unwanted attention from men as I had experienced this before, and It felt so horrid so I was stopping myself from ever feeling that by an old contract I put in place with my body and soul.

*I turned the fear of feeling the victim energy into being a woman in her queen energy and that stopped the advances as I had developed a new mindset and stronger protective energy. Far better than extra pounds as protection. My stature changed and I could walk and talk and radiate a new kind of confidence that came from inside.

*I knew what I wanted instead and who I wanted to be and I knew what that felt like.

The woman I wanted to be in the next phase of her life was very different to the woman who I started this journey; I knew I wanted to go all the way and never have to talk or worry about my weight ever again. This was a transformation and along the way I met myself and had begun to like and LOVE myself. Putting myself 1st 2nd and 3rd.

*I kept getting signs to dive deeper to clear all of this up once and for all. I felt at home in my body and gave up fighting with my spirit who had wanted me to do this for years. She made herself known to me so many times in so many ways. She spoke to me through my body and physical symptoms. The weight had been a big lesson that she wanted me to see what I was resisting. To feel what was possible for me

*I now know my inner me, I have her name and I have a strong connection and speak to her every day and ask for guidance. She answers my questions and has brought me so much from confidence to the relationships and the life I always wanted. To living life on purpose and feeling alive and appreciating wholeheartedly where and who I am.

 

THE BIG 5 Game Changers

What I am offering you today are 8  x 1 to 1 sessions taken over 8 weeks, these are the most intensive release sessions I do, Using advanced techniques to release trapped emotions. I’ve heard it said they are like surgery with out any tears. We concentrate on letting go of the mindset and emotions – so that you can consciously create the physical experience you are after from the inside out.

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8 mind-blowing sessions that release you from your BIG 5 beliefs and mindsets designed just for you – such as: guilt, fear, anger, judgments, disappointment, rejection, fear, not feeling good enough, deserving enough, humiliation, confusion, Self Doubt…. so that you are totally free from creating more of the same.

Free to move on…. without that trap door being always open and held somewhere yin our background, which is sabotaging your every move and all the effort you have ever made to losing weight. 

I am Fiona Robertson The Body Renewer and here is how I work.

I offer these sessions as clearing so that you can move forward ask me to qualify by setting up an initial call here in my schedule.

 I will get back to you with a questionnaire so our call can be the most efficient and productive 

I look forward to mleeting you very soon and clearing away the BIG 5.

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Liver Detox of a very different kind

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Earlier today I had a call with an amazing woman called Mary ( name changed ) and guided her through what was a wonderfully surprising journey for her, but it all came so naturally that it was accepted and absorbed, our next call will be equally as profound and very productive.

The conversation was initiated as she wanted to detox and came to me as an expert to help her to detox. In particular she felt drawn to cleanse the liver and gall bladder. I found myself hesitant before I started, as I felt my normal route about healthy food, hydration, cleansing detox periods, etc was not what was needed here., or not yet anyway. We started to talk and I recommended flushing the system and certainly the colon needs to be taken care of, before any liver cleanse, as it needs somewhere to dump all the toxins you have to get rid of, from alcohol, medicines, household chemicals etc that get trapped and held onto and stored in the liver.

I found my left hand tapping on my right hand at a quite fast tempo, and asked her to tap where ever she normally taps ( as I knew she used EFT )

Then we moved swiftly on what I was being drawn to, I felt into her liver energetically and asked her to purge the anger held in side the liver and the bitterness in the gall bladder. We did what I call a spring cleanse that concentrates asking questions for 16 to 20 minutes with her purging ( detoxing ) all the stored up things, people, situations, places encounters that make her angry and that she had stored unconsciously over the years. The Liver and Gall bladder are where the body typically stores anger and bitterness.

During the session I found myself breathing deeply as the energy shifted and I moved to tapping on my liver gently with a soft and open fist to move the energy about a bit more. My liver was aching and felt dull and stagnant. I felt drawn to move, stretch the right hand side of my body and jiggle about a bit and suggested she did so too, to stir up her energy.

I find that once I’ve opened the flood gates on an emotion held within the body the detox and purge goes on for a few more days, releasing old situations and bringing to light the old anger. Speaking it out loud certainly helps a great deal, as it becomes seen, heard and recognized maybe for the first time ever.

We continued our session with my Body Widsom techniques and we asked the body what it wants most of all. During our Spring cleansing and purging of the anger, I heard her say that she never really ever felt safe. This is a very common theme, and one which I have developed a particular way to help ALL my clients with, as I feel strongly that it is at the route of many of our sabotaging and unconscious behaviors.

Feeling safe allows us to feel safe out in the world and in our own skin. The need to protect ourselves is reduced, as we know we can reach a safe place and can distinguish what feels safe and what does not. We can therefore making stronger decisions and choices that support ourselves from a place of safety. It is an experience that brings much relief once it has been fully experienced. I followed my technique and guided her into her very own safe place. This is a remarkable healing place and the place I begin all my calls with, once you know how to find it, it will be invaluable to you. From this safe place you can access your own awareness and intuition. With your sensitivity set on high so that you are totally conscious through out your day, its much easier to begin to get some really clear answers. The Safe place is a place you can return to again and again, and you can adjust to feel even safer when ever you want.

I heard from Mary, that after the session she went outside and danced in the garden and felt better for shaking the energy up a bit. We will continue with more in another session together.

With much love and a new energy

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Raw food, green juices, detoxing, crisps, pizza’s and moule frites.

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The Missing Nutrient that Saved the Day, and has helped me to go all the way..

I live a very special kind of life, I am grateful for all of my experiences that I have manifested and the way I have chosen to follow my healthy path, and especially how I run my business as a health and fitness partner to some really amazing people.

Yet sometimes as a health freak and wellbeing coach I get cornered, and life throws me a surprising curve ball. So it seems strange to see me opting for less than wholesome or totally un-healthy options from time to time. My companions, friends and people who meet me and who know who I am and for what I stand for, are rather flummoxed when they see me choose such unhealthy options.
Yet I am fully aware that these are my comfort foods when I am in a time of need, or when I am feeling that I am deserving more in life or for when I am just really angry and frustrated.

I am very aware of what I am doing. I have learnt that these are the times when I have not been taking care of my deepest needs. For me a quick fix to getting what is missing is comfort food, it fills a gap and temporarily gives me the feeling of being safe and home.
I am happily to say that I have uncovered my mystery of how to fulfill my own deepest needs, and when I do these comfort foods are not even an option for me any more.

So if you are a health freak like me and find yourself surprised by your midnight binging, or if you are tired of the increasing weight gain and don’t know how to stop the cravings. I can help.

The mystery is that it is not ALL about what we eat,
but rather what we seek.
My skill is in changing what and how you eat forever.
By adding in, not taking away.

I am so passionate about it and have personally seen what a difference it has made to me, as well as a small section of my community, that I want to share this with you.

Last year I made some rather large decisions in my life, which has resulted in some rather difficult stuff for me to face, acknowledge and let go of and be OK with.

One thing came out from all of this which is a big pattern for me, and that is as much as I love my health and my zealous route to health via Detoxing, cleansing, fasting, Raw and alkalizing food, yoga and natural products, something HUGE was still missing. As I went in search of this BIG missing item I have discovered myself anew.

One of the reasons I do my regular detoxes and keep to my major pure and Raw food diet was to give me more energy and stay healthy. I had both of my children in my 40’s and I decided then and there I wanted and needed to stay active for them as they grew and wanted to run and play more. I did not want to be left behind as they became teenagers. So I got busy with my diet and found increasingly new ways of how to detox the body, I saw and felt massive improvements and wanted more of these feelings. Did you know that being so concentrated on what’s healthy actually has an official name which is Orthorexia. (is an obsession with eating a “pure” diet, which usually entails avoiding foods with artificial colors, flavors or preservatives, unhealthy fats, added sugar or salt, and genetic modification)

I was keeping to my path of healthy eating and taking my Yoga classes walking and taking care of myself or so I thought, but and here’s the rub I felt that I was deserving something else, much more. I was exhausted and was still striving for my fullest energy. What could be more satisfying than a healthy body and energy to spare? That concept had taken me so far but I soon realised I was not nourishing myself at all. I was working hard and building my health business, caring for my children and family, maintaining my house, pets and the garden, well just about coping actually if the truth be known, but I felt tired and drained and was feeling I had to force myself to stay on track. When all I craved was some comfort, and my chosen habitual comfort foods.

Two years ago I hit an emotional wall and I discovered that I needed more time for myself, so I started to take time out for walks, quiet river time, meditation, all that was good but I still missed something, where’s the fun? Where’s the adventure? I need to be cheeky and take some risks and have some thrills if I am to stay alive, I mean really alive. I felt stagnant and well to be honest I did not take care of my other needs that well either. I missed my appointments with myself to take time out from the office, or book a massage, or sit in the garden and read. I heard myself saying to myself “that’s all well and good, but I need to work now, who else will bring in the money we need?”. Don’t get me wrong I really get great satisfaction from my work and seeing my clients flourish. So I though that was more than enough for me, along with my very healthy lifestyle.

However I was left feeling unfulfilled and what do we do when we are unfulfilled? We look for ways to fill ourselves up. Now anyone who knows me, knows of my addiction to crisps. I took some time to contemplate this question and I asked myself why I needed the crisps ? it was a clear message that I heard, :”Because I deserve them, I have been working so hard and caring for everyone else, where is my treat?, I need a treat.”
What I have found is that by connecting with my self, and listening to my body in the special ways that I use and that I can easily teach you, I can finally see and understand what was missing.
I have learnt that as I take care of me and I mean really take care of me on every level, in all aspects of my life, my craving and need for filling myself up with something naughty like crisps or to go on a shopping spree for this elusive items that just adds to my wardrobe has diminished. My healthy appetite for pure natural foods have been restored and I have discovered that I can relax more and be happier. I have more energy for the things I want to do and I really know what it is that I desire in every sense of the word, and what’s more I can allow myself to receive it in every day.

My passion is re newed as I have allowed my self my missing nutrient, and in my case it is exhilaration and thrills, and I have researched how I get these the most and added them in to my life, eg: horse riding, running, anything with speed and excitement and a little danger too, this makes me feel really, really alive.
Everyone has there own special nutrient and I am so happy that I have found mine it has changed everything for me, Now that mine is overflowing I am happy to watch you reach your true potential as I have. By partnering with you, I can quickly guide you to find what it is that you really need to be fulfilled, so that comfort eating is a thing of the past. I will teach you how to change what and how you eat forever. This is only really possible and sustainable once you have discovered what it is that you need on a deeper more satisfying level.

No amount of salads and green juices will get you to where you want unless you are fulfilled and finding your food and your life a pleasure. If your food is not a pleasure you will be looking elsewhere until you can feel full up. You know the search and drama that happens as you look into your fridge and cupboards late at night for something to fill the gap. But is it food that you really need? NO….

This is a unique adventure that will help you to feel so fulfilled, you will discover and know what you really desire and be able to ask for it and better still actually get it. I will teach you the unique ways that you can Nourish yourself and watch you as you flourish beyond your expectations. I will guide you through and create a truly healthy and tasty menu that suits you and fulfills you. No amount of healthy food that actually tastes like medicine will fulfill you either.

Intrigued?

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