How to STOP 80% of Cravings in 4 easy weeks

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7 Steps on How you can STOP 80 of your craving in 4 easy weeks.

A craving is simply a pattern that persists over a phase of time and no amount of willpower can stop you diving into that particular food and consuming it at those particular times.

Self-sabotage has us ruining everything we worked hard for and the very idea of not having it or restriction can be enough to have us throw away all our hard efforts, But there is something else at play here too. So dive in and let’s find out.

I intend to guide you through a process that will identify your craving so that you can start to break that pattern in a very short space of time.

You most likely already know the craving you have so let’s get started and find the deeper meaning for you today.

  1. What do you crave? Is it Salt, Fat or Sugar – Identify it name it
  2. Notice when the craving happens i.e. evening, alone time, in the car, or in the train, bored, frantic, after confrontation, experiencing a particular feeling or emotion? Find it
  3. Next time you are faced with that particular craving, STOP and push it away for a minute. Its Ok you can still have it after you have asked yourself this one question.
  4. What would be more fulfilling than this right now?
  5. Listen to your words as you are about to dive in and consume your craving, What do you say to yourself?
  6. What valid reasons do you give yourself and have for consuming this right now?
  7. How does your Body feel before and after you have consumed your craving?

Do this practice every time you get your craving and become really clear what the craving is telling you. There is a deeper meaning behind your craving, most certainly one that will surprise you.

Once you have identified your reasons and the deeper meaning for the craving, you are well on you’re way to ending it once and for all.

Discover what you are missing and what the craving is teaching and calling for…..

What would be more fulfilling than this right now?

How can you have more of that?

I hope you found this informative and you begin to get an idea what your craving means for you. It can take several attempts to stop before you indulge so be gentle with yourself, It is so worth doing.

Do you need help to identify the root cause of your craving and the deeper meaning?

Is it something you have tried but can’t get close to for it to end?

I have several short videos on the TOP 3 cravings that are available for you. My only wish that you can identify and stop that craving, so when you have done this exercise let me know your findings and I will send over the one that had the most impact and the most Ah Ha moments from the watchers.

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What’s Next – The right place to discover that your body is not fixed, final or punishing you.

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What’s Next?

Hello and welcome I am thrilled you are tuning in.

This is the right place to be to discover that your body is not fixed, final or punishing you.

 

Let’s’ get you settled and feeling first of all SAFE in your body so that you trust her and she trusts you – then get you to have the greatest experience you can imagine physically that you have craved for decades.

So What’s Next? I received a call recently and the woman Melanie, said to me –

“Fiona I can’t do this it is too hard!

What if I change so much and I lose all those around me the people I love.

What if I became that girl in the RED SHOES and I go wild, thoroughly enjoying life and all she offers… I know I have that in me and I’ll wreck everything that I’ve worked so hard for.”

 

“After our Call” – she continued – “I see it all… wanting to lose weight is showing me – OMG how can I say this and not seem bad – how bored I am. I am frustrated. I really do want more……”

Why do so many women settle for less than they deserve ? – when the door opens and they see and feel what’s possible next – then they promptly shut it again.

You heart and soul are so bored, neglected and crave all the juice of life to fill you up on every level. You see the reasons you overeat and use shopping or work or sport to fill you up and ignore your spirited self calling you.

Yet the longer you ignore the real craving for all that juicy life the longer you will fill in that empty gap with what ever you fill it in with. Here we talk about food. But there are other gap fillers like shopping, over working, over sport.

As soon as you start to admit you would love to have some fun, be more frivolous, be feisty and be fired up in your life then sooner you will feel fulfilled – and the cravings will neutralize themselves, the endless spending and food binges will stop and these cravings will have shown themselves for what they truly are calling you for and towards.

This lady started a fresh and committed to herself by breaking through her blocks and stops, she dropped 2 stone that’s 3 dress sizes and is now having a very juicy life.

If your willpower is weak, and your self-sabotage is stronger than ever, you will no doubt be asking yourself what is going wrong?

If you have found that you have broken every promise you made to yourself and can’t keep on track then be sure that You are being triggered.

Find your trigger and neutralize it?

Triggers come in all shapes and sizes. Its well worth neutralizing that trigger and moving on with your life.

When you are ready to experience what Melanie did – to lose the need to fill up on overeating, give into cravings and get back in control of you this one technique for 7 days, 7 Hours and start now with 7 minutes.

  1. Ask yourself if you are BORED like Melanie – frustrated – Angry – sad, hurt – resentful – lonely?
  2. Feel how boredom feels in your body Don’t push it away; Invite it in fully. Pay attention to it fully – why is it there what does it make you feel.
  3. What do you want instead? Dedicate 7 minutes to be honest about what you want.

For example do you want Fun, Excitement, adventure, be spontaneous romance, have really great love and sex and not hold back or is it all so much to ask for?

Do you resist it and stay bored for the next 20 – 30 years – and all that that means – or do you take steps to amend and become who you most wanted to be in this lifetime.

When you are ready reply with ‘Start a Fresh’ and Ill see to it that we give you an experience of what is possible for you next.

I’ll give you preferential treatment to go to the top of my list and break free of what’s creating you on that energetic level.

It is my souls purpose to break free women from their self limiting beliefs and the physical consequences of these.

See you on the other side ladies;

Fiona Robertson

Body Whisperer

Creating women consciously and on purpose one step at a time.

P.S When you’re ready there are 4 ways I can help you with the very next step to becoming the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life.

  1. Help yourself to a copy of my FREE Create yourself on purpose E book

“The Ultimate Body Connection” and see how to create yourself on purpose using the steps and techniques that feel amazing that I have laid out in this E-book. Click here http://fionarobertson.co/product/ultimate-body-connection-e-book/

  1. Join the Women Winning the World, with Weight, Wealth and Wonder community and connect with women who are creating them selves on purpose and be one of the smart women who get more tips and techniques and have already started to make a real impact on who they want to reinvent themselves as in the next phase of their lives. Click here https://www.facebook.com/groups/FionaRobertson/

3. Grab a FREE 45 min consultation and breakthrough Body Scan call with me and discover your current

  1. a) blocks and stops that are in place,
  2. b) what your body is doing, and
  3. c) the very next step you can take to feel confident, excited and believe you can create your own physical body as you want her to be.

Just reply to this message and say ‘Body Scan’ and I will send you details how we can connect.

4. Work with me. If you are wanting to create yourself into the woman you most want to be in the next phase of your life physically, mentally and in high spirits, just reply to this message with PRIVATE in the subject line and tell me a little about your story and your physical experience, and I will get you all the details you need to make that process happen to see you become the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life in just a few months.

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How to deal with those bumps in the road. (Avoid temptations)

We all hit bumps in the road of life. I am a big believer in it’s not how far you fall, but how quickly you bounce back. Your bump could be that you got frightened about something and that set off a chain of responses that resulted in your habitual reaction such as giving in to temptation, over indulging in a particular craving, distracting yourself with excesses of food or ended up drinking more than you planned, or one of your other distractions that you most commonly use.

 

I am beginning to write a lot (because it’s SO important) about this, and how the only thing we can really change is our perception to these situations. We have influence over some things in our lives, but mostly we are quite powerless to control every single situation and the feelings those situations bring up for us. That is why our attitude and perception can change everything for us, and it can all change in a very short space of time when we know what to do.

 

So when you (or I) hit a bump in the road, when we get thrown off track, when we get depressed and feel frightened – what do we do? HOW can we bounce back?

 

Sometimes however we feel that we don’t want to bounce back. Some of us would rather give in to temptation ans keep suppressing our feelings, emotions and think its easier to keep hiding away under that blanket of our chosen distraction, rather than to begin to understand ourselves and why we do what we habitually do. Is it easier in the long run to keep hiding and stuffing down those parts of ourselves that are dying to be seen, recognized and expressed. The path of self-destruction is filled with avoidance of yourself.

Everyone has their favourite distraction and technique to avoid what is potentially painful. Even too much potential happiness can be frightening, you see its is not just pain that we try and avoid. That’s what these addictions really are – avoidance of ourselves, which is to our own detriment. There are LOTS of ways to be and stay addicted. You can be addicted to substances, alcohol, people, work, fame, success, attention, flirting with people, sugar, food and lots of other things, even like avoidance in novels, films, entertainment – anything to keep you away from hearing your inner voice and true potential. I have concentrated on coaching about food as it has been my key avoidance drug, however they all operate in much the same way. Food has been one of my main avoidance techniques and where most of us need a kick start.

 

When we hit a rough patch in life, (and all of us do from time to time) instead of just letting ourselves feel it, which will admittedly take some practice and guidance, we tend to choose one of the above distractions or addictions and keep avoiding what’s within us. This is not what life and The Universe has in mind for you. No amount of chocolate, sex, alcohol, success, people or drugs can silence the gentle sensitive whisper of The Universe within you. Your soul needs and desires expression and wants to be heard, and is actually guiding you to understand, know and like yourself better and better.

 

So, today try this instead, instead of running and hiding behind your favourite distraction, I have another suggestion. My suggestion is that it’s time to stop running from The Universe, your feelings and your emotions and just face them. Be still. Get quiet and listen. Let yourself get angry, let yourself get sad. Face the truth; go through the feeling your experiencing and know when you do it will fade.

 

I have found a system that has helped me truly face my emotions and feelings instead of running from them. So I am going to give you some tips on HOW to feel your way through your feelings and remain as sane as possible through the process:

 

Try This;

If you find that you are angry, sad, jealous, hurt, embarrassed, ignored or what ever the feeling it is you’ve identified this time, then ask yourself “What do you have on that feeling?”

Keep asking yourself the same question over and over again, this process can take up to (15 minutes). Write it all out on a clean page everything you have on this one feeling. It is better to speak it out loud but without a coach to guide you then writing is a good substitute. Every time you’ve felt angry for example, what are all the things that have made you angry? Really get to know the feeling, really feel it, this is maybe the first time that you have ever been aware of this actual feeling in your body.

Can you feel the energy of this feeling? Soon you will recognize when you feel angry, what makes you angry and what you do when you feel angry, and what your habitual response is to that feeling has been.

 

I would LoVe to help you to be able to reach this place, and detox yourself from this feeling that is driving all your cravings and responses that distract your from the pain you are feeling. To really help you, so that you can begin to recognize your own mechanisms to avoiding and distracting yourself, that are sabotaging your day, your relationships and your health.

 

I will meet you on a skype call and guide you through an experience and out the other side into your own unique Sweet Spot, where you can experience yourself feeling really relaxed, at ease and can feel safe and completely trusting.

Contact me today for your SWEET SPOT EXPERIENCE on Fiona@fionarobertson.co

 

You will also discover one invaluable and immediate step you can take whenever you feel stressed or have a situation that brings up a feeling of discomfort and pain.

 

There are additional ways to avoid the distractions you have set up for yourself, which I am happy to share and have listed below.

 

  1. Breathe – our bodies need oxygen. Most of us don’t breathe properly and deprive our body from this essential nutrient.

Take 3 deep belly breaths taking a count of a minimum of 6 seconds in and out.

 

2. Go 100{6a14cc849908c46212f3d2c8a81eada984febec31535ea1cc7f55de4f8a4ba8e} Clean and sober from your distraction of choice. For 30 days give up the cigarettes, the alcohol, the lover, the sugar and the craving.

 

  1. Drink your fill – hydrate. Dehydration can lead to all kinds of negative side effects, including depression and low energy.

 

Drink 1 litre of the best water you can find, if you want details about what water just ask me.

 

  1. Exercise – Move your body 3-4 days a week for at least 30 minutes.

 

  1. Do a Detox – clean out the old stagnated matter and make room for the new in every sense, a detox can be beneficial to your environment as well as just what you consume. Once you clean up one area of your life the other areas demand a detox too.

 

  1. Eat a more alkaline diet. This is a great way to bring your body back into alignment

 

  1. Get a mentor or coach to help guide you through this process. It REALLY helps to have someone be an outside observer and guide you through with no judgements or expectations.

 

  1. Write your feelings. A spring clean in this way by using a Journal for 10-30 minutes to just let out how you feel onto a clean page really helps.

 

  1. Only hang out with friends who uplift you. Take a break from any negative people in your life.

 

  1. Write your goals down. Imagine your best life and write down what you really want your life to be like. Many of us have created no clear vision of the kind of life we want to create, and therefore and as a result it never happens. I can guide you with the right questions to ask yourself.

 

  1. When you start to have anxiety, sadness or any “negative” emotion, instead of reaching for the pills, the sugar or the drink, just let yourself feel your feelings. Where do you feel it? What does the feeling and the energy of it feel like. What are the symptoms?

 

  1. Visit places of high vibrations – sacred spaces, yoga studios, nature, be with awesome friends, etc. Go where the LOVE is.

 

I hope these tips help you break through. These are some of the most powerful tools I know to connect back to who you really are, to be able to hear The Universe and feel balanced and stay as sane as possible in the process.

Let me know how it goes.

As always, I am here in complete dedication to your experience for a happy vibrant life.

I am passionate about helping you reach your place where food and your other distractions are no longer ruling your life. And you can be aware of your feelings and responses, making balanced decisions from a relaxed and safe place.

 

Fiona Robertson

fiona@fionarobertson.co.uk

How to follow your feelings, and get out of your emotional cage

Do you know how you are feeling right now? or are you locked up in your cage away from any feelings?

A few years ago now I was close to a healer who became a strong influence in my life and the decisions I made as a result from speaking to her. She was a strong character and I thought I was not so strong or so well versed in the ways of the world. She was talented but I did not see my own talents when I was in her light.

This story is intended to show us all that we have inner strength and intuition to know how we feel about something and that we can become aware of how to follow our feelings.

When I was going through rough times I would default into listening to others and in particular this college of mine, and I never got to know my own inner guidance system. When this relationship came to an end I was hurt and devastated, as most of us are when a strong influence disappears and any relationship ends that we have come to count on.

However I was asked a very wise question at that time which was, “Do you feel stronger or weaker from not having her in your life?” I pondered and felt for the first time in a long time actually that I have felt stronger, I DO know what to do for myself? I have made decisions and as a result I have come to trust myself. Yes I am stronger.

This week I was coaching a lady who has taken advise from many outsiders about her situation, and she did not realize that she was not taking responsibility of her own life. She was facing some larger decisions and felt unsure of herself.

We tuned into her body and felt what it was like now in her current situation and then we tuned into the future version of events, if she made the decision to move to this new apartment. And we oscillated between the two and she got a real sense of how it felt for herself to move. There was not a list, a strategy or rationalizing, or weighing up others opinions or concerns to come to the decision. It came from her and her alone. It was a great feeling that fulfilled her and expanded her chest and she felt secure, relaxed and confident.

We make all our decisions based on feelings, ultimately we know what feels good for us and what does not. I have been coaching for some time around this subject, It usually starts with someone wanting to change their relationship to food as the relationship is not working for them with what they have been told to follow and what to do, and the results are not coming through. Then the coaching evolves into how we relate to everything, all of our relationships, finances, partners, family and our environment. I have seen that how we relate to one thing we relate to everything, and that certainly goes for how we relate to ourselves concerning food and how we eat and the consequences it has on us physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and spiritually when we choose foods or diets that do not work for us personally.

I really love what I do and especially the beyond detox and diets program. The subtle messages that we can tune into for and about ourselves come from and are all about our feelings? knowing how to follow our feelings is an invaluable gift. And thinking back I have made many, many decisions based on my feelings alone, but I did not fully know it at the time.

I tell many people that this subtle direction that comes from inside, is available to everyone and is now more necessary than ever, to follow our own guidance system, as we can be and are overwhelmed with more and more information, and people in positions of importance to us telling us what we should and should not do, work, health and environment wise as well concerning our families education, wellbeing and so the list goes on and on. We have hundreds of e-mails to answer, people to keep a connection with, and decisions to make every day. There is no fixed strategy, plan or formula to get us through any more that worked in previous generations. Imagine you are blindfolded and cannot see the path to take or which direction to go, you would have to feel your way forward and that is a subtle feeling that grows and grows the more you get used to using it. Not too dissimilar to our every day challenges when we feel blindfolded and try and try to get though the day making hundreds of decisions that are important to us.

When I decided not to live in England anymore, after traveling for 1 year around the world, it was based on a feeling. The world is a bigger place and it’s an adventure to live elsewhere that ticks my personal boxes, sea, mountains, climate, tropical plants, wild untamed nature on the doorstep. I knew when I had found my place, It felt right. It felt like coming home.

When I got separated and needed to find a new home, many people said go or come back to England, but that was a feeling that felt like I was being suffocated, and was so sad that told me that was not for me. I knew that I would find a home that would suits my families and work purposes. It happened and when i entered the home it felt right, easy and like coming home.

When I was looking to have help in my new home in the garden and with some building work, and I had people coming to stay in my home, It was a feeling that told me it was either OK or not to have them in my home, and that was before I met them in person, I tuned into them and could feel if it would be easy, a struggle or not to go there at all. It was an experiment that worked every time.

It is so normal to get lost in others opinions, when we are searching for answers, what worked for them, to do with health, weight loss, moving home, relationships. I know as I have still some trouble remembering and lifting myself away from the regular path where I learnt how to deal with my problems, Knuckle down and work hard, Don’t get emotional, don’t feel just do more…. I am the queen of hard work and beating myself up. But then I remember there is an easier way, we have a sixth sense that works just as well as any psychic’s eventually. If we can just be guided how to find it, tune in and use it for ourselves. It will be our best friend and guide us well through life.

Do you have decisions to make? Changes you need to make with your lifestyle, eating habits, career or relationships, and the old path is not working out for you? Do you want to experience what it is like to feel your way forward for yourself?

Try This; Bring your attention to your chest area, first notice all the thoughts and their energy inside your head, bashing up against the space of your head. Start to bring all of this consciousness down to it’s final resting place in your heart space. Bring it down through your face, past your eyes and jaw line and neck and past your shoulders. Feel the energy draining down in what ever shape you can imagine that energy has. Feel the relaxation come into your face, your eyes relax, your nose, ears, jaw and tongue and begin to feel as if you can look out at the world from the level of your heart, your head is above you and your awareness is in your chest. Vibrating with its busy, busy energy in your chest. Now merge that energy with the beating of the heart.

Rest here and relax as much as you can, notice your breath and your heart beat.

Notice the air turning and coming back in and turning again and going out.

Become aware of the subtle decision to start breathing in, and then the decision to breath out, where is that place in your body?

Now notice the moment you decide to change the direction of your breath.

Rest here and just notice the simple act of breathing, the air turning and your heart beating.

Stay here as long as you can and gauge for yourself how relaxed you are in this place 1 being really relaxed and 10 being still stressed.

This is stage one to get you homed into your bodies subtle energy.

If you want to experience a session with me to find and develop your safe and sweet spot, a place where you just are totally you and totally aware and relaxed, Then please take me up on my offer

Contact me for a SWEET SPOT EXPERIENCE call, where as part of that call I will start to guide you into your very own unique safe place.

You will also discover one invaluable and immediate step you can take whenever you feel stressed, for example; about making a decision, before you give a presentation, before a date, or any situation that brings up a feeling of discomfort and pain.

E mail me here; Fiona@fionarobertson.co and mention the word “FEELING” and I will arrange a sweet spot call for you in the next 10 days. August 2015

I look forward to hearing from you

Fiona

Detox Diva, your beyond detox queen. It is an inside job, physical, mental and feeling into your emotional and the spiritual awareness that lies behind everything you do..

How to feel your way forward and out of the cage you have placed yourself in.