Body as your ‘Body Guard’

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Your Body as your Body Guard

As soon as you wake up your brain looks around and becomes vigilant and has you in high alert. There is a part of the brain that looks for clues and dangers and how to navigate through your day. Your reptile brain looks in every corner to see what is a-safe and what is not and tells you.

You’re not even aware of this because its on automatic and you have always done it.

Your body constantly collects and pick up data all day long, and at night too for that matter.

Your body takes readings and even acts on the emotional state of others around you too, not just your own environment, thoughts and concerns.

All of this means that you are feeling al day long, although subconsciously your environment is alive with vibrations you receive and you will always have a chemical reaction to this level of High Alert and vigilant feeling, that goes onto further affect your internal organs, bacteria, cells and energy levels.

Your body is trying to get your attention with all this data. Can you feel the tension build in your stomach, in your neck and shoulders as the day wears on. The data keeps on coming in, it is relentless, all filtered via your marvelous reptile brain warning you of a potential plot against you, maybe something to mistrust or fear, your brain is there only to warn of danger and it is for you to make a conscious decision if it is worth acting upon. That’s it. Yet we don’t take the time.

Ignore these first signals and be sure that your mind will pick up the pace until it is influencing your body with signals of worry, until you really have to take notice of what these sign are telling you as you will have accidents, health issues become overwhelmed and eventually ask yourself what on earth is going on here?.

Here is the link to the accompanying video. https://youtu.be/1epzJANW9sc

 

The BAD thing about the brain and body being your body guard

  1. She is always on duty as your body guard, giving you data to analyze and trying the best ways she can to get your undivided attention.
  2. You over think situations, analyze endlessly the hell out of them, not knowing why you feel so overwhelmed, with so many decisions to make and what’s right.
  3. You are becoming exhausted being ‘ON’ all the time and have no idea how to switch OFF this High Alert status. Too many ideas, plans, deadline, people to please, friend or foe, good or bad. When will it all end?

The GOOD thing about the brain and body being your body guard

  1. You get to choose what to be vigilant about and when you can chill out and turn it OFF
  2. You can relax knowing you have the best support at hand and on your side, just learn how to ask the right and best questions to your high alert self and when you can literally turn off.
  3. You can turn OFF the constant High Alert and the flight and flight mode and use that leakage of energy else where, leaving you much more awake, vital and ready to have fun. You can see clearly when it’s not yours to worry about and then – no ones opinion, judgments, bad behavior affect you or has your body on GUARD any more.

You become gently strong and so resilient and ask the right question to your own personal ‘body guard’

So many ladies have the misconception that to be in control is to be super busy and in control of everything, juggling work, home, family members, food, chores etc.

When I see the control that is needed towards food for someone, I know exactly where the issue lies in their battle for the control over their life too.

 

The very efficient vigilant Reptile part of the brain is on High Alert and if so, she needs a whole LOT of constant ENERGY to fuel all that pressure, those amount of thoughts and the need to fire fight situations, and so the body has to crave more and more fuel to restore the energy and the fuel lost in the days emergencies, and also creates a need to store extra energy as fuel on the body, something like a reserve tank to use should the re be a big emergency.

Because lets face it Every Day you wake up and it all starts over again, the status of High Alert and being ON Duty 24/7 hours of the day.

Until I discovered how to turn off my Reptile brain and get in control of the situations at hand I was exhausted and regularly craved certain foods to fuel me. I gained weight and had health issues of many sorts to resolve. My Body Guard saw to it that I held a store for that just in case event

Now thankfully I am economic with my energy use and only fight the fires that need my full attention and not everyone else’s as well… now that I feel is far more efficient.

If you want to be and look like you have it all under control and not store energy for another day’s emergencies and you’d like to be seen as a switched on woman who is well in charge of her work, her life and her body now reflects that, then to be on top of your game you need to know and do 3 NEW things

  1. You need to be able to feel SAFE
  2. You need to be running on a fuel that lasts a very long time and gives you lots of energy
  3. You need to know how to turn OFF the high alert and vigilance state in an instant.

This will turn your body around 180°

Take the quiz called ‘Drop a Dress Size’ and see where your reptile brain and her level of High Alert are at by taking this quiz we can see together what strange things and responses she has going on, making it easy to identify and resolve the main culprits.

I hope this has been helpful. I will see you on the other side.

Here is the quiz called Drop A Dress Size.

It has been my pleasure to share this leading edge information of how the body really works.

 

If you have questions or a concern please do not hesitate to ask me.

Fiona Robertson

Body Whisperer

5 simple mistakes women make when trying to lose weight – Mother- Daughter contract

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5 simple mistakes women make when trying to lose weight – Mother Daughter Contract

“How can you call yourself a Weight Loss coach?”

“I did not lose any weight on your retreat or whilst following your program”. Whilst I saw others lose 5 or 10kg. Me, I stayed the exact same. I am very, very frustrated”.

There are 5 simple mistakes that women don’t understand when they trying to lose weight

I will go into these in depth over the coming weeks and explain why it is that women still believe what they are doing will influence their weight positively – BUT 99% of the time it is very often the reverse.

Most women think they know what to do when it comes to their bodies but get lost in adapting their food, eating less and less and trying to move more and more.

There are 5 simple elements I that I have discovered that play a fundamental role in your body reshaping itself.

  1. Stress
  2. Sleep
  3. Hormones
  4. Exercise
  5. Missing Nutrients

+ Secret Influencer ( every woman story is different but has a similar theme with her particular Mother-Daughter Contract)

For further insights into how these 5 simple elements play out with us physically follow the link.

On this call with a very pissed off woman complaining that she had not lost weight, and had since gained extra weight since she stopped the program.

I listened to her, curious if she would see or take in any of the links we had discussed in our time together, and see that the specific tasks that were assigned to her were there to highlight what was specifically happening here. But alas she was too happy blaming someone else. Often her mother and then her Ex, her previous boss and now me.

This was an old pattern and the anger she held for her relationship with her mother, even at 55years old she was still ruining all her chances of building strong relationships with others and with herself.

The mother-daughter contract & relationship is a very powerful one. It represents our first love and first disappointment, that clearly can last decades. Even being handed down through the generations each mother to daughter until it lands on you, and ruins your relationships and body.

It’s our task to break that contract once and for all. I myself know this only too well and found myself wanting to live as far away as possible from my mother. Australia would have been too close, but I could not get into that beautiful country. So S.W. France was where I landed. Even hundreds of miles away from the ties to the apron strings and need to be appreciated, loved, it still dragged me down until I did some much-needed breakthrough work specifically on that. So that now I am not affected and am happily impervious to her bad behavior, criticisms, and judgments of me.

The victim and blame stories I heard from my client and frequently hear from ladies are all very similar to the wounded little girl inside. She is crying out to be heard and loved.

These feelings and needs are enough for the body to carry a layer or even several layers of protection around our middle, and with some women covering the whole body.

But, I hear you ask, what has that got to do with her ability to lose weight and STOP her overeating? Won’t that go eventually with diets or detoxes?

You cannot diet away the emotional drama, trauma, disappointment, hurt, loss and all of that and more in the cells.

It’s not your fault. There is No One who telling this side of the weight story but me.

You weren’t to know, but you know now and it’s easy as pie to rectify.

I have seen it in dozens upon dozens of women, myself included, lose 6lbs in just a few days ( PLUS other major physical symptoms ) when they release the need to tell that same sort of maddening stories they have told over and over again. When you release the need to hold onto that hurt and you will see that weight goes along with it. It all goes down the toilet literally.

So no matter what diet you are on, the weight can’t go – as its held in place by you and your need to hang onto that hurt.

This lady had been given all the tools, all the practices been shown several times how to take the time to make the space for herself that will see any woman turn around here complaints 180°.

BUT instead of doing any of that, she preferred to distract herself with other stuff rather than what her body wanted her to pay attention to, so she could feel vibrant again.

I understand I really do, the fear of setting yourself free, from the identity of the wounded child, which means you have to grow up. And many, many of us don’t know how to grow up when we have been raised by a child like mother. A grown women in her years yet still acting out like a child.

Here is what you can do if this sounds familiar.

If you want to overcome the body holding onto the weight that can easily be released –

1.First grab a copy of the Body Code 5 Essential Elements that are keeping your body stuck.

  1. Second contact me by replying to this E mail with Mother Daughter Contract and ask for a free consultation to see the 3 immediate steps you can take today to release the mother energy and the contract you are tied into. Reply with Mother Daughter Contract and I will make specific time for you and prioritize you to take you on a huge step in the right direction, so you can start to release the weight of being in that energy.

When you are ready to set yourself free and grow in a wiser woman in the next phase of your life I will celebrate and support you and be your biggest cheer leader.

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