5 Ways that Being Selfish get’s you the Body you crave.

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5 Ways that Being ‘Selfish’ got all of us the Body we craved.

I am very happy to share this story of how Sandy becoming ‘Selfish’ made her dreams come true.

You see Sandy was listening and following her health guru’s and doing whatever they said, changing altering her food and nutrition and it all made perfect sense. She saw others get further forward and hit targets but never her.

“What am I doing wrong?”

She had a dream that she wanted to meet a guy and have a family and live happily ever after. But to enable her to meet a guy and have that family she wanted to be comfortable in her own skin.

But try as she might the weight did not shift, She had a job and life that was normal relatively stable, but there wqs something missing.

Hi I am Fiona Robertson, and I am a Body Whisperer and I help women reinvent themselves as the most Highly Spirited Women she can imagine being and bring her back to life.. Back to her reality – as naughty, Fun, up to high jinks, breaking all those good and boring habits of being good, mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, aunties and best friends. 

This High Spirited journey not only creates incredibly happy women like she is on the best happy pills ever, but completely turns around the physical body 180° so that you can have huge positive physical consequences.

To create yourself on a physical, cellular, molecular, metabolic level you only need to take care of 1 thing.

Fiona Robertson
Creating women on purpose with massive positive physical consequences.

Sandy contacted me (best decision she ever made) to discover how what I did was different and why ladies were losing weight consistently, dropping dress sizes and getting their lives in order – but with as much effort she was putting in on what others told her would work, nothing, zip, nada changed for her.

She made a wise decision to work with me for 6 months and invest in herself as she committed to herself. On that day she was already changing at a very deep level.

She had put herself first.

Understanding her desires – was seeing her driving force, but she wanted more I could feel it.

We dug down and around with simple enough questions we started to find her vital missing nutrients – not food related but life related.

She was bored – with her job but it paid the basic bills, she disliked where she lived but it gave her independence and although she was alone a lot she was OK as she liked her own company. She talked and yearned to travel again, the places, people and new adventures, the freedom of traveling was a bit of a distant dream of hers.

Spending a year out after her studies had left her in debt, as well as her education debt so she needed to work now to pay those off. She was stuck between a rock and a hard place with no hope of traveling again and had the feeling she was being suffocated. I could feel that in her body – she could hardly breathe, she hardly moved, her routine and obligations to others drained her. Constant family obligations and caring for her parents and babysitting at a moment notice

Her dreams seemed to be a very selfish need and not at all practical or achievable, but she was dying and I could feel that this was a big part of the weight not shifting. I helped her understand that feeling so that she was aware of it too and what the consequences were on her body of that energy surging through her.

We took steady steps to counteract that.

She started to adopt the 5 ways that helped her take back control and watched as her body said: “thank you”.

Firstly, she admitted that she longed to go off traveling again and felt that relief of giving herself permission that she could if she wanted to.

Secondly, we had her plan create and design a perfect travel experience to dive into it fully

Next, I asked her to be very aware of how that felt in the body when she talked about traveling and the freedom she desired; We would go into that energy a lot every time we met up.

Fourthly, we discovered other areas that gave her a similar feeling in her body, putting herself first was new to her, One thing was the thought of moving house and not renting any more which was a big but exciting decision.

Fifthly, she daringly started looking for other jobs and imagining working in other places, maybe for herself becoming a home worker. And designing more around how that would feel.

Sandy moved house in a few months and changed her job, she has put her needs before those of others and as a result she lost 4 stone in the 4 months that we worked together and is still maintaining that body she craved, she has found that she loves life again and with that her body morphed and trusted here to fulfill her own needs;

I heard her laugh, heard her stories of adventures she been on and she dropped more dress sizes and has started dating.

I watched as Sandy became the woman she wanted to be in the next phase of her life.

If you are ready to get what Sandy experienced and discover what your version of a Highly Spirited woman will be in the next phase of your life reply with SELFISH and I will make space for you in my diary

Do you remember a time when you were Highly Spirited? – She wants you to find her and then go and get her.

So much Love

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I hope I have inspired you that you are not fixed or final nor is your body punishing you.

P.S When you’re ready there are 4 ways I can help you with the very next step to becoming the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life.

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  1. a) blocks and stops that are in place,
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  1. Work with me. If you are wanting to create yourself into the woman you most want to be in the next phase of your life physically, mentally and in high spirits, just reply to this message with PRIVATE in the subject line and tell me a little about your story and your physical experience, and I will get you all the details you need to make that process happen to see you become the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life in just a few months.

There is so much more available for you to experience in the body you crave. Take a dive in and see all the routes to get there.

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The Missing Nutrient that Saved the Day, and has helped me to go all the way..

I live a very special kind of life, I am grateful for all of my experiences that I have manifested and the way I have chosen to follow my healthy path, and especially how I run my business as a health and fitness partner to some really amazing people.

Yet sometimes as a health freak and wellbeing coach I get cornered, and life throws me a surprising curve ball. So it seems strange to see me opting for less than wholesome or totally un-healthy options from time to time. My companions, friends and people who meet me and who know who I am and for what I stand for, are rather flummoxed when they see me choose such unhealthy options.
Yet I am fully aware that these are my comfort foods when I am in a time of need, or when I am feeling that I am deserving more in life or for when I am just really angry and frustrated.

I am very aware of what I am doing. I have learnt that these are the times when I have not been taking care of my deepest needs. For me a quick fix to getting what is missing is comfort food, it fills a gap and temporarily gives me the feeling of being safe and home.
I am happily to say that I have uncovered my mystery of how to fulfill my own deepest needs, and when I do these comfort foods are not even an option for me any more.

So if you are a health freak like me and find yourself surprised by your midnight binging, or if you are tired of the increasing weight gain and don’t know how to stop the cravings. I can help.

The mystery is that it is not ALL about what we eat,
but rather what we seek.
My skill is in changing what and how you eat forever.
By adding in, not taking away.

I am so passionate about it and have personally seen what a difference it has made to me, as well as a small section of my community, that I want to share this with you.

Last year I made some rather large decisions in my life, which has resulted in some rather difficult stuff for me to face, acknowledge and let go of and be OK with.

One thing came out from all of this which is a big pattern for me, and that is as much as I love my health and my zealous route to health via Detoxing, cleansing, fasting, Raw and alkalizing food, yoga and natural products, something HUGE was still missing. As I went in search of this BIG missing item I have discovered myself anew.

One of the reasons I do my regular detoxes and keep to my major pure and Raw food diet was to give me more energy and stay healthy. I had both of my children in my 40’s and I decided then and there I wanted and needed to stay active for them as they grew and wanted to run and play more. I did not want to be left behind as they became teenagers. So I got busy with my diet and found increasingly new ways of how to detox the body, I saw and felt massive improvements and wanted more of these feelings. Did you know that being so concentrated on what’s healthy actually has an official name which is Orthorexia. (is an obsession with eating a “pure” diet, which usually entails avoiding foods with artificial colors, flavors or preservatives, unhealthy fats, added sugar or salt, and genetic modification)

I was keeping to my path of healthy eating and taking my Yoga classes walking and taking care of myself or so I thought, but and here’s the rub I felt that I was deserving something else, much more. I was exhausted and was still striving for my fullest energy. What could be more satisfying than a healthy body and energy to spare? That concept had taken me so far but I soon realised I was not nourishing myself at all. I was working hard and building my health business, caring for my children and family, maintaining my house, pets and the garden, well just about coping actually if the truth be known, but I felt tired and drained and was feeling I had to force myself to stay on track. When all I craved was some comfort, and my chosen habitual comfort foods.

Two years ago I hit an emotional wall and I discovered that I needed more time for myself, so I started to take time out for walks, quiet river time, meditation, all that was good but I still missed something, where’s the fun? Where’s the adventure? I need to be cheeky and take some risks and have some thrills if I am to stay alive, I mean really alive. I felt stagnant and well to be honest I did not take care of my other needs that well either. I missed my appointments with myself to take time out from the office, or book a massage, or sit in the garden and read. I heard myself saying to myself “that’s all well and good, but I need to work now, who else will bring in the money we need?”. Don’t get me wrong I really get great satisfaction from my work and seeing my clients flourish. So I though that was more than enough for me, along with my very healthy lifestyle.

However I was left feeling unfulfilled and what do we do when we are unfulfilled? We look for ways to fill ourselves up. Now anyone who knows me, knows of my addiction to crisps. I took some time to contemplate this question and I asked myself why I needed the crisps ? it was a clear message that I heard, :”Because I deserve them, I have been working so hard and caring for everyone else, where is my treat?, I need a treat.”
What I have found is that by connecting with my self, and listening to my body in the special ways that I use and that I can easily teach you, I can finally see and understand what was missing.
I have learnt that as I take care of me and I mean really take care of me on every level, in all aspects of my life, my craving and need for filling myself up with something naughty like crisps or to go on a shopping spree for this elusive items that just adds to my wardrobe has diminished. My healthy appetite for pure natural foods have been restored and I have discovered that I can relax more and be happier. I have more energy for the things I want to do and I really know what it is that I desire in every sense of the word, and what’s more I can allow myself to receive it in every day.

My passion is re newed as I have allowed my self my missing nutrient, and in my case it is exhilaration and thrills, and I have researched how I get these the most and added them in to my life, eg: horse riding, running, anything with speed and excitement and a little danger too, this makes me feel really, really alive.
Everyone has there own special nutrient and I am so happy that I have found mine it has changed everything for me, Now that mine is overflowing I am happy to watch you reach your true potential as I have. By partnering with you, I can quickly guide you to find what it is that you really need to be fulfilled, so that comfort eating is a thing of the past. I will teach you how to change what and how you eat forever. This is only really possible and sustainable once you have discovered what it is that you need on a deeper more satisfying level.

No amount of salads and green juices will get you to where you want unless you are fulfilled and finding your food and your life a pleasure. If your food is not a pleasure you will be looking elsewhere until you can feel full up. You know the search and drama that happens as you look into your fridge and cupboards late at night for something to fill the gap. But is it food that you really need? NO….

This is a unique adventure that will help you to feel so fulfilled, you will discover and know what you really desire and be able to ask for it and better still actually get it. I will teach you the unique ways that you can Nourish yourself and watch you as you flourish beyond your expectations. I will guide you through and create a truly healthy and tasty menu that suits you and fulfills you. No amount of healthy food that actually tastes like medicine will fulfill you either.

Intrigued?

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