5 Ways that Being ‘Selfish’ got all of us the Body we craved.
I am very happy to share this story of how Sandy becoming ‘Selfish’ made her dreams come true.
You see Sandy was listening and following her health guru’s and doing whatever they said, changing altering her food and nutrition and it all made perfect sense. She saw others get further forward and hit targets but never her.
“What am I doing wrong?”
She had a dream that she wanted to meet a guy and have a family and live happily ever after. But to enable her to meet a guy and have that family she wanted to be comfortable in her own skin.
But try as she might the weight did not shift, She had a job and life that was normal relatively stable, but there wqs something missing.
Hi I am Fiona Robertson, and I am a Body Whisperer and I help women reinvent themselves as the most Highly Spirited Women she can imagine being and bring her back to life.. Back to her reality – as naughty, Fun, up to high jinks, breaking all those good and boring habits of being good, mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, aunties and best friends.
This High Spirited journey not only creates incredibly happy women like she is on the best happy pills ever, but completely turns around the physical body 180° so that you can have huge positive physical consequences.
To create yourself on a physical, cellular, molecular, metabolic level you only need to take care of 1 thing.
Creating women on purpose with massive positive physical consequences.
Sandy contacted me (best decision she ever made) to discover how what I did was different and why ladies were losing weight consistently, dropping dress sizes and getting their lives in order – but with as much effort she was putting in on what others told her would work, nothing, zip, nada changed for her.
She made a wise decision to work with me for 6 months and invest in herself as she committed to herself. On that day she was already changing at a very deep level.
She had put herself first.
Understanding her desires – was seeing her driving force, but she wanted more I could feel it.
We dug down and around with simple enough questions we started to find her vital missing nutrients – not food related but life related.
She was bored – with her job but it paid the basic bills, she disliked where she lived but it gave her independence and although she was alone a lot she was OK as she liked her own company. She talked and yearned to travel again, the places, people and new adventures, the freedom of traveling was a bit of a distant dream of hers.
Spending a year out after her studies had left her in debt, as well as her education debt so she needed to work now to pay those off. She was stuck between a rock and a hard place with no hope of traveling again and had the feeling she was being suffocated. I could feel that in her body – she could hardly breathe, she hardly moved, her routine and obligations to others drained her. Constant family obligations and caring for her parents and babysitting at a moment notice
Her dreams seemed to be a very selfish need and not at all practical or achievable, but she was dying and I could feel that this was a big part of the weight not shifting. I helped her understand that feeling so that she was aware of it too and what the consequences were on her body of that energy surging through her.
We took steady steps to counteract that.
She started to adopt the 5 ways that helped her take back control and watched as her body said: “thank you”.
Firstly, she admitted that she longed to go off traveling again and felt that relief of giving herself permission that she could if she wanted to.
Secondly, we had her plan create and design a perfect travel experience to dive into it fully
Next, I asked her to be very aware of how that felt in the body when she talked about traveling and the freedom she desired; We would go into that energy a lot every time we met up.
Fourthly, we discovered other areas that gave her a similar feeling in her body, putting herself first was new to her, One thing was the thought of moving house and not renting any more which was a big but exciting decision.
Fifthly, she daringly started looking for other jobs and imagining working in other places, maybe for herself becoming a home worker. And designing more around how that would feel.
Sandy moved house in a few months and changed her job, she has put her needs before those of others and as a result she lost 4 stone in the 4 months that we worked together and is still maintaining that body she craved, she has found that she loves life again and with that her body morphed and trusted here to fulfill her own needs;
I heard her laugh, heard her stories of adventures she been on and she dropped more dress sizes and has started dating.
I watched as Sandy became the woman she wanted to be in the next phase of her life.
If you are ready to get what Sandy experienced and discover what your version of a Highly Spirited woman will be in the next phase of your life reply with SELFISH and I will make space for you in my diary
Do you remember a time when you were Highly Spirited? – She wants you to find her and then go and get her.
So much Love
I hope I have inspired you that you are not fixed or final nor is your body punishing you.
P.S When you’re ready there are 4 ways I can help you with the very next step to becoming the woman you most want to be in the next phase of her life.
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- a) blocks and stops that are in place,
- b) what your body is doing, and
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There is so much more available for you to experience in the body you crave. Take a dive in and see all the routes to get there.